Signs ex wants you back
admin on Feb 11th 2009
When relationship between partners in a marriage or in a live in relationship strains there are tell tale signs if the partner who wants to desert is actually ex wants you back.
Sadly most of the people are not able to recognize these signs. They have already become depressed and are living in a virtual world. Their senses are now numb. Even if they see things just in front of them; they do not believe their own eyes. They simply can not interpret expressions and behaviour of their partner.
But it is also true that in more than 90% of cases, people want to come back. When they live; only then they realize the value of things which they had back in their old relationship. Now they miss those things. They develop nostalgia for everything they had back then. They also want to relive every moment they had spent with their ex partner.
So they start sending signals to their ex partner. They purposely make mistakes and asks their ex partner to correct those mistakes. They try to contact relatives and acquaintances of their ex partner. They try to stalk their ex partner. These are all signs that your ex wants you back.
Many people see and understand those signals. But their ego does not allow them to break out of their mould and pick up those signals. Their ego does not allow them to accept the invitation which their ex is sending through these signals. They pretend to show that they have not seen anything. They pretend to show that they have not heard those voiceless calls. They pretend to show that they are too busy. All of these things they do because their ego does not allow them to accept invitation from their ex.
Signs your ex sends to express his or intention to come back may be through expressions, physical contact, phones, email messages, greetings, short messages through SMS or just any other imaginable media. Women are better experts in understanding these signals than men. Women are also better equipped to guess what is being said between the lines than men. Men in general lack cognitive powers which women are empowered with by nature. It is always their second nature contrary to what men are endowed with. Women are also better equipped to manage relationships. So when a woman is living a man then the man simply becomes helpless. He simply lacks any clues as to what he can do make his girlfriend back. But when men live, women have more success in taking their men back.
That is why women read, interpret, understand and take appropriate action when they receive signals from their ex when they want to come back. This fact also complies with natural roles men and women play of that of a bread winner and a home maker. Men excel in their role of winning the bread naturally but they are not naturally endowed to preserve the home. It is the women who have to play the role of home maker and not home breaker.
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