Stop my divorce
admin on Feb 14th 2009
So who will stop my divorce? Anybody out there! Sadly no body can stop my divorce. It is me only who can do it. Marriages are no more made in heaven. More than half of all marriages are ending up in divorce. So who is to blame!
The main culprits of breaking of marriages are sadly our own society which we have formed and transformed over the years. We have become too individualistic. We have forgotten the rules of sharing. We have forgotten the joy which we get out of sharing our happiness and sorrows with others. So why marriages should be spared?
Coming back to the question; who will Stop my divorce, let us analyze some common facts. People no longer live with their feet firmly on ground. They are living on cloud 9 these days. They want instant gratification of their desires. They want instant success. They want instant money. They do not have patience. They can not tolerate any change from their routine life. They can not spare some time for thinking about consequences of their actions.
In a world where people have become too individualistic, thinking that they can accommodate desires of other people in their life is impossible. It is also a fact that some people do sacrifice their own desires for making other people happy. But who is caring? In a marriage, a husband is making sacrifices on a daily basis but if the wife cares or acknowledges? Simply no! These things keep going on an on and some fine day the marriage breaks.
Divorces can be stopped only when the partner who is at fault should realize his or her mistakes and make amends. But it does not happen. Why? Because people do not have enough time to think. Or they do not want to think. In a world of instant gratification and instant consumption; no body thinks twice about anything. So the marriage suffers.
So what is the solution? One fact which people do not take cognizance of is that even when one partner is leaving the nest; he or she still has a bond with the nest and with the other partner. If the other partner behaves exactly like the first partner then the first partner may become curious. They may want to know if his or her partner is sleeping with somebody. If the other partner has really stopped caring for him or her? When this happens then they want to come back. They may now realize that they still have that bond with the nest and with the partner. Now they will become desperate to save the nest. They will become desperate to win back their partner. They will do anything to stop his or her partner from leaving him or her.
When this happens then the divorce can be stopped. Using this formula anybody can stop his or her divorce. There is simply no other alternative to Stop a divorce other than this formula. It is time tasted and foolproof.
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